Wedding

I went to a wedding yesterday, the bride looked amazing, her husband looked handsome, it was all so perfect........and then someone handed them their 5 month old son. Couldnt help but think to myself, "hang on a minute, I did this all the right way around, met man, fell in love, got married, next step is baby. Yet here they were, this perfect little family, they didnt do things "properly", yet they have it all. Why am I being punished for doing things in the right order?