Realisation

I realised something today, I've been focusing on the wrong thing all along. I was focusing on the baby, when really I should be thinking of why we doing this. People, on a whole, in general, or as I like to beleive, have babies as an expression of their love. Thats why my husband and I are on this journey, this baby isnt about having a cute "house guest for the next 18 years", its about making a bond, a constant symbol of our love. Flowers die, material gifts can get lost or break, but a baby, thats for life, for better for worse, in sickness and in health, for richer for poorer. A baby is a symbol of our marriage. A promise.